Sarah, one of your team members, brings an innovative idea to your one-on-one meeting that could significantly streamline a critical team process. The potential impact is exciting! But then, a thought crosses your mind: "Jan LOVES the current process just the way it is. She single-handedly created it five years ago and has been its biggest advocate ever since. She’ll never be willing to give it up."
We've all worked with that colleague who fiercely guards a process—perhaps because they created it or strongly believe in its value. As leaders, it’s tempting to take the path of least resistance because tough conversations are, well… tough.
Maybe your team feels like a family–you've weathered storms together, built mutual respect and fostered a sense of belonging. But this closeness has led to a fear of conflict, making it feel risky to challenge something that Jan cherishes. So, you avoid the conversation entirely because you assume it will go poorly. You rationalize that you're too busy, you deflect responsibility, and you dismiss Sarah’s idea altogether, convinced that the conflict isn't worth the effort.
But avoiding this conversation is not only uncomfortable, it’s a hidden drain on your team's energy and creativity.
When a process becomes untouchable, it stifles innovation, wastes time, and holds people back. The longer this goes unaddressed, the more opportunities are missed, leading to stagnation, frustration, and even resentment. The price of not having this conversation is paid in missed potential, both for the team and for Jan herself.
High-performing teams can challenge a process they like - even one that works well today - in the name of innovation and efficiency. By shifting your approach and starting this conversation, you are taking a massive step toward a more effective team. The cost of inaction - both for your team’s growth and for the organization’s success - is too high.